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The  Power of Female Friendships

9/16/2017

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​Female friendships that work are relationships in which women help each other belong to themselves. ~Louise Bernikow
The true benefits of friendship are immeasurable. Friends make our lives better and studies show that friendship has a much more significant impact on our physical and psychological wellbeing than family relationships.
 
Women are the central pillars of a family, providing integral care for children, their spouses, extended family and this care often extends into the community. This outpouring of care can and does leave women feeling depleted. This is where the power of female friendship comes in.
 
Natural nurturers and empathic givers, women innately understand how to support one another. Being with other women with whom you connect on a deep level is restorative and grounding.
​Women’s friendships are a renewable source of power. They are vital and heart-opening, replenishing and nourishing us physically, mentally and emotionally. Women share a special bond; they bare their souls to each other, reveal their secrets and vulnerability as well as support, inspire and encourage one another. 
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Scientific studies have revealed that these profound female friendships boost overall health and wellbeing. It’s been shown that not having female companions is as negative to women’s health as smoking. A 2006 breast cancer study found that women without close friends were four times as likely to die from the disease as women with 10 or more friends. And notably, proximity and the amount of contact with a friend weren’t associated with survival. Just having friends was protective. 
 
Another study discovered that men and women respond very differently to stress. When under stress, the body goes into a ‘fight or flight’ response and releases cortisol and oxytocin. In women, oxytocin minimizes the ‘fight or flight’ reaction, encouraging them to protect and nurture and to gather with other women for support and encouragement.
 
When under stress, men produce high levels of testosterone, which reduces the calming effects of oxytocin. As such, men are more inclined to deal with stress with aggression (fight) or withdrawal (flight). Women produce estrogen, enhancing the effects of oxytocin and encouraging them to seek social support.
 
This ‘tend and befriend’ inclination has been observed in females of all species. By gathering with others, even more oxytocin is released, resulting in further reduction of stress and providing a calming effect.
 
Activist and actress Jane Fonda says of the difference between the friendships of men and women, “Women have ‘face-to-face friendships while men have ‘side-by-side’ friendships. Friendship between women is different than friendship between men. We talk about different things. We delve deep. We go under, even if we haven’t seen each other for years. There are hormones that are released from women to other women that are healthy and do away with the stress hormones. It’s my women friends that keep starch in my spine and without them, I don’t know where I would be. We have to just hang together and help each other.”

Enjoy this Ted Talk where longtime friends Jane Fonda and Lily Tomlin discuss the power of female friendships.

So gather your tribe. Sisterhood offers strength, support, empathy and comfort. It reduces stress, boosts resiliency, health and happiness.
A sweet friendship refreshes the soul.
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2/23/2023 07:59:30 am

Great post thaanks

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    Carol Adamski, M.A., has led various workshops—nationally and internationally—on leadership, personal empowerment, communications, and relationships. For 15 years as a coach, she has demonstrated strength and compassion, with the ability to listen deeply and ask just the right questions.

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